Relationships are a powerful spiritual practice. As we view each person who comes to us as a gift and as our teacher, we are able to see the places we are holding on. We can also see the ways in which we may still be in the grip of anger, fear, possessiveness or judgment. In this workshop, based upon Zen practice, we will go over trouble spots in relationships, including jealousy, misunderstandings, boredom, and lies, and offer new ways of working with them. We will discover ways of letting go, giving up false expectations, and developing parental mind, learning to nourish others. In this process, true intimacy with self and others develops, along with fulfillment and joy.
Some of the topics covered include: “Taking Off Your Shoes” (Becoming Available); “Doing Nothing” (Releasing Control); “Cleaning House” (Emptying Yourself); “Being the Doorman” (Being There for Others); “Cooking” (Nourishing Others and Yourself); “Receiving the Stick” (Dealing with Blows); and “Struggling with Your Koan” (Working Problems Out). Specific, direct tools and instructions will be included, along with interactive exercises, lecture, discussion, and questions and answers.